Tulisa Contostavlos Opens Up About Demisexuality and Its Impact on Her Life

2024-11-20

Tulisa Contostavlos, the 36-year-old singer from N-Dubz and former X Factor judge, recently revealed her demisexuality during an episode of ITV’s I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here!. In candid discussions with fellow campmates, Tulisa expressed that she needs to form a close emotional bond with someone before feeling any sexual attraction, stating, “I need actual depth… I’m a slow, slow burner. I’ve been celibate for over three years.”

Describing herself as “not an overly sexualised person,” Tulisa shared her experiences with dating apps, mentioning her brief foray into Raya, an exclusive dating service for celebrities. However, she noted that this had not resulted in any actual dates, emphasising her guarded nature in romantic pursuits.

Tulisa’s admission sparked significant interest and emotional responses from viewers. Fans took to social media to celebrate her openness about demisexuality, a sexual orientation that falls under the asexual spectrum, where individuals only experience sexual attraction after establishing a meaningful emotional connection. This term, often linked with asexuality, allows for a broad interpretation across various sexual orientations and gender identities.

In discussing her three years of celibacy, Tulisa attributed her choice to a combination of personal values and past experiences, notably a highly publicised revenge porn scandal in 2012 that deeply impacted her views on trust and relationships. The incident, which she described as “virtual rape,” left her feeling judged and ashamed, stating, “It’s affected my relationships to this day and intimacy.”

During her time in the jungle, Tulisa reflected on the growth and healing that has come from her experiences, asserting, “All pain is growth,” and highlighting her commitment to self-discovery and mental health. Her revelations have drawn attention to demisexuality and the discussions surrounding sexual orientation, with many pleased to see such topics gaining representation in mainstream media.

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